So Hum Mantra - A Guide to Balance Emotions and Embrace Sorrow
You look at the world and you ask the question, how to be
happy? And there'll be millions to advise
you. A lot of them will give you 3 steps
or a 7-day challenge or a 21-day workbook
or hand you scriptures and books that talk about
beliefs and formulas to be happy.
Everybody can help you on how to be happy,
but what about how to be sad? Let's
talk about that in today's episode before I introduce you to
today's mantra. Namaste, and welcome
back to yet another episode of the Mahakatha
Meditation mantras podcast. I'm your host,
Preeti. And today, we're talking about sorrow.
I know it's not a very catchy topic. Sorrow.
I know it won't gather a crowd like joy
can. But my question to you today is
this, is sorrow something we
overcome to reach joy? Or does it
maybe have a deeper purpose?
On some level, you and I know that sorrow has a
purpose in our lives. We know that. We
know this through our own experience in life. We know this
through stories that we have read and watched and
heard that beautifully depict how
sorrow was at the center of some of the most pivotal
moments in the story of a human being.
And yet, in today's world that wants you to simply
echo positivity, that demands you to be positive,
or else, you risk being labeled as
whiny, as complaining, as
ungrateful, or as simply a negative person.
A world that wants you to simply cheer up.
Take a few deep breaths and do a few exercises and
suddenly feel amazing. This is a world
that has forgotten how to be sad.
And because we live in this world, we now see sorrow
as something that just needs to be overcome,
rather than something that needs to be
experienced. And so today's episode is
just a gentle reminder that sorrow
is meant to be experienced too.
There is still a lot of healing power in having a good
cry, whether it is at the end of an emotional movie,
or whether it is when you are by yourself thinking of things
and remembering people that you are grieving for.
Today's episode is a reminder that joy and
sorrow come from the same place and
deserve the same amount of kindness and
attention and patience. There
is no urgency to overcome sorrow.
Because in trying to rush away from it, you might
miss the most pivotal chapters, the
most pivotal lessons of your life.
I want to remind you that it is alright to be
alone in your sorrow as well. If you feel
like there's nobody else you can speak to about your
sorrows, then I want you to know that it is possible
to sit down with your sorrow by yourself
and still with the wisdom of your own mind,
heal your sorrow. For that, you just
have to learn to be comfortable with your own solitude.
Comfortable with not rushing towards things in
taking things slow. Because in this
slowness and in this solitude, wonderful
healings happen. Speaking of joy and
sorrow, I bring you one of the most
beautiful mantras to help you Balance
your emotions and sit down with the sorrow, like
I said, without fear, without judgment,
and with patience and courage. The mantra that
will help you breathe through your sorrow and
to make room for healing. That mantra
is the simple So Hum mantra.
So Hum is a
chant that is created to mimic the sounds
of our breath. 'So' depicts the
sound and process of our inhalation, and 'Hum'
depicts the soft and slow flowing out
of our breath. And if we can
practice the slowness and the calmness
of 'So Hum', especially in our
bouts of sorrow, then we can teach ourselves to make
peace with our sorrows and to experience them
and marvel at them just as
we marvel at our joys. If you
haven't meditated with the So Hum mantra yet, then
the chant is available to you at a
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the description below. And try sitting down
with this mantra and surrendering your sorrow,
your grief to it. The world and
all its rush and all its urgency can wait
for those precious few minutes as you
peacefully meet your sorrow. Your sorrow
is important. Your sorrow does
have a role to play and to etch it
deeper into your mind. I'm gonna leave you with
a few sentences from one of the most beautiful
passages ever written on joy and sorrow,
written by the great Lebanese-American poet
and philosopher, Khalil Gibran. He
says, your joy is your sorrow
unmasked. Your joy
is your sorrow unmasked.
And the same well from which your laughter rises
was oftentimes filled with your tears.
And how else can it be? The deeper
that sorrow carves into your being,
the more joy you can contain.
The deeper that sorrow carves into
your being, The more joy
you can contain. And these last
few lines may sound a bit philosophical,
but I want you to think about them the entire week.
And even if you can extract 2%
of what it is trying to say, you will see your
joys and your sorrows in a completely
new light. He says, when you are
joyous, look deep into your heart,
and you will find It is only that which has
given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
And when you are sorrowful, look again in your heart,
and you shall see that in truth, you
are weeping for that which has been your
delight. I hope you think
about these lines all week long, and I
hope you come to the realization of how joy and
sorrow come from the same origin,
the same source, and that you are not meant
to bulldoze over your sorrow
or defeat it. You are meant to fully
experience it so that it may heal
you. On that note, dear listener,
we come to the end of this episode. Thank you so much for
tuning in today and sticking around till the end while we
spoke about a rather unpopular topic.
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